4 October 2012
Ever found yourself unhappy for the sole reason that someone else is happy?
Hanging on to other people's happiness, most certainly guarantees irritation, jealousy and unhappiness for our own self. That means, that one may have all the reason in the world to be happy in a moment, and still end up jerking the high tide, all for falling to the feeling of misery arising out of someone else's happiness.
Quite often, people pretend to be happier than they are, to the outside world (we'll come to why's of that later), and here we magnify the sham in our minds & overlook the richness of our own blessed lives. Feeling despaired out of looking at happy faces from a distance is not real, because that's not what you wanted. You wanted something else, and in amidst of the whole misery, you've lost it in your mind.
Happiness is a personal feeling, and it has to come from within. Comparisons and bench marking it with someone else's only dilutes it. People who are genuinely happy are the ones who goal their dreams themselves and achieve them, most importantly, the goals are purely personal and the success too.
"Make your own happiness, and not hang on to the others'. Share it and make it felt across everyone around you.
...and it'll grow"
Ever found yourself unhappy for the sole reason that someone else is happy?
Hanging on to other people's happiness, most certainly guarantees irritation, jealousy and unhappiness for our own self. That means, that one may have all the reason in the world to be happy in a moment, and still end up jerking the high tide, all for falling to the feeling of misery arising out of someone else's happiness.
Quite often, people pretend to be happier than they are, to the outside world (we'll come to why's of that later), and here we magnify the sham in our minds & overlook the richness of our own blessed lives. Feeling despaired out of looking at happy faces from a distance is not real, because that's not what you wanted. You wanted something else, and in amidst of the whole misery, you've lost it in your mind.
Happiness is a personal feeling, and it has to come from within. Comparisons and bench marking it with someone else's only dilutes it. People who are genuinely happy are the ones who goal their dreams themselves and achieve them, most importantly, the goals are purely personal and the success too.
"Make your own happiness, and not hang on to the others'. Share it and make it felt across everyone around you.
...and it'll grow"
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